Am i finally getting over my obsession?

Ok lived next door to this guy in 2009 we did the thang and he made a fool out of me, well I got back at him, then he calls himself harrasing me and using my car, he got on my nerves so bad I let him use it, yea I was a dang fool, ok so we go back and forth with this like hate thing for about a year, we are not friends, not even lovers only did it a few times, we wouldn't date one another, but everytime he can get a chance to get under my skin he does, and everytime i can irratate him i will, well i didnt do as many bad things to him as he did to me, so i started bothering him online and by phone, well it became an obsession for like two years i couldn't stop myself from texting him how i felt or cussing at him, or saying lil silly ****, and i neveer acted this way before, but oddly he never got mad at me but a few times cause i didnt give him what he wanted other than that he didnt care, and this mand has a temper and im surprised when we was around on another he didn't go off and beat me up...well I only text him once in a few months, and got online to say one thing last month and i dont think to botheer him no more, can i safely say im back to my normal self, and he hasn't made any way to come by me either...which is good...are we both getting back to normal...he don't want to bother me and i him? so what do you think are we finish, I hope i am, I want to be my normal self again.